Boundaries & Conduct

My boundaries are clear and form a fundamental part of the experience I offer. Respect, consent, and consideration are expected at all times. These standards are non-negotiable.

Basic personal hygiene is required and is a bare minimum expectation. I should not have to explain that your hygiene is not up to an acceptable standard. If, upon meeting, hygiene is lacking and I am required to ask you to wash or freshen up, I reserve the right to cancel the reservation. In such circumstances, the full reservation fee remains payable.

All services, dynamics, and the general tone or mood of our time together are agreed in advance. Once agreed, these terms are not open to renegotiation during the reservation. Attempts to alter the agreed service, introduce new activities, shift the dynamic, or change the mood mid-reservation are not acceptable.

I do not engage in any form of experience involving forced feminisation narratives, degrading or humiliating “sissy” or “trap” framing or crossdressing scenarios. These narratives, in my opinion, undermine my stature and identity as a transgender woman. I will not participate in any experience where this is included, under any circumstances.

Disrespectful, defamatory, or dehumanising language will not be tolerated. This includes slurs, misgendering, fetishisation, or commentary that targets transgender people. My identity is not a fantasy, a role, or a subject for debate. Any breach of this boundary will result in the immediate conclusion of the reservation, with the full fee retained.

Questions, commentary, or assumptions about my body, anatomy, medical history, or transition are not appropriate unless explicitly invited by me. My body and identity are not educational material and are not open to examination or discussion by default.

Consent is essential and ongoing. Pressure, persuasion, guilt, or attempts to override agreed boundaries are not acceptable. Silence is not consent. Consent may be withdrawn at any time.

Boundary testing will not be tolerated. If a request, comment, joke, or suggestion tests a boundary, I will clearly state no and shut it down. If the same boundary is tested a second time, I will pause the interaction and make it clear that it must not happen again. If my boundaries are tested or pushed a third time, the reservation will end immediately.

Emotional manipulation is not acceptable. This includes guilt-tripping, leveraging vulnerability, comparing me to other providers, or suggesting that payment entitles you to flexibility beyond what was agreed.

Substance use must be disclosed. Transparency is required if you are drinking or taking any substances. I maintain my own clarity at all times and typically limit myself to one or two glasses. Pressure to consume alcohol or substances beyond my comfort level is a firm boundary and will not be tolerated.

Aggressive, unsafe, or intimidating behaviour will result in the immediate termination of the reservation. This includes physical force, threats, unwanted restraint, or behaviour that compromises my safety or ability to consent.

Third-party involvement is not permitted. This includes additional people, observers, surprise guests, phone calls, video calls, or messaging others during our time together. Any attempt to involve a third party without explicit prior agreement will result in the reservation ending immediately.

Recording, photographing, or capturing audio or video of any kind is strictly prohibited. This includes hidden devices, screenshots, screen recordings, or surveillance of any form.

I am clear and explicit about my role, the nature of our time together, and what is being offered prior to confirmation. For this reason, if a reservation concludes early for any reason, the full fee remains payable.

I reserve the right to end a reservation at any point if I feel unsafe, disrespected, or if my boundaries are breached. In such circumstances, the reservation fee is retained.